Saturday, June 30, 2007
Day 15
Natasha had set up a cab to pick us up from the camp. We walked out the gate and a cab was waiting. He said something to us we couldn't understand. We got in the car and hoped he was taking us to where we needed to go. Once we got back to the hotel we left to do some shopping. We were able to buy some shoes for Michael and some snack food. Later John took a short nap and Cindy went out to do some shopping. It's amazing how much you can communicate while hardly saying any words at all.
This afternoon we went down to the beach with the children again. Kristina's group was already swimming and making sand sculptures. There were many jellyfish, (medussa in Russian), along the shore. . . ick! Michael was playing with them and was stung. Later he was running all over the place and as we were heading back to the camp he went running way on ahead and wouldn't slow down. Natasha was not happy. We have got to learn more words in Russian to be able to keep him under control. He is going to be a real handful. Before we left we gave Michael and toy ambulance which he loved and Kristina got a pink, (her favorite color), purse with some hair clips and a pink brush. She was so excited. It is so good that she is calm, she will be a big help keeping Michael under control.
Thanks for your prayers,
John and Cindy
Friday, June 29, 2007
Day 14 More of the same
After an afternoon rest we went back for a 2 hr visit. This time the group was going to have a short program. We waited for about 40 minutes for it to start. Natasha had left us with the children. Kristina was busy taking pictures of her friends but, boy, was it hard for Michael to just sit and wait. He seems to be in constant motion. Also he keeps talking to us but we have no idea what he is saying. We did play some games with the soccer ball as this keeps Michael busy. It appears we will have to keep him busy during the day so he will be tired at night.
For dinner we went to a small cafe in the middle of nowhere. There was a host, waiter, bartender, chef, busboy, and cashier, but it was all the same person. :) While we were eating we watched a herd of cows cross the road about 500 yards down the road. The meal we had was acutally quite good. If you didn't know better you would think you were in Virginia, because the landscape is very similar.
I'm unable to download pictures at this computer, sorry. Kristina is 136 cm tall and weighs 29 kg, Michael is 97 cm tall and weighs 15 kg.
Keep praying for a court date on Tues.
John and Cindy
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Day 13 Visiting Kristina and Michael
Day 12 Seeing Kristina and Michael
While we were with Luba, Natasha completed all the paperwork and sent it back to Kyiv. Now we just wait for a court date. Unfortunately June 28th is a National holiday so all offices are closed Thursday and Friday. On Monday we should find out when our court date is.
After lunch we headed down to Skadosk, it is about an hour drive along mostly 2 lane roads. We are staying at a small hotel with a pool in front. The hotel has air conditioning!
Then we headed to the camp where Kristina and Michael are spending the summer. There are several hundred children here of all ages. The camp is on the Sea of Azov. Kristina and Michael were very excited to see us. They had not been told we were coming back. They came up and hugged us without being told to. We gave Michael a car and Kristina a cross-stitch. While walking around the camp they even took our hands without being asked. Michael was very excited to show us his bedroom. There are four boys staying in the room total. John was excited to see that Michael's bed was made the neatest. Kristina's room has four girls in it. She seems to be into crafts and is making her own bracelets. She also is writing in a journal.
They gave us a short tour of the camp. We were there for about an hour.
We ended the night playing Uno for four hours. We will have to teach Kristina how to play.
Thanks again for all your prayers, please pray for Luba since we will be away till July 2.
John and Cindy
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Day 11 running errands
Monday, June 25, 2007
Day 10 Getting paperwork done
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Day 9 Getting to know Luba
Continue to pray Luba will warm up more and more. We hope to be able to see Christina and Micheal on Tuesday.
Thanks for your prayers,
John and Cindy
Saturday, June 23, 2007
Day 8 Odessa
We had to travel all the way to Odessa today, which is about 200 km away. This time we had a very good taxi driver. The car was very clean and everything had it's own place in the trunk, just like John's truck. The drive took about 2 1/2 hrs, traffic was fairly heavy. The road was two lanes most of the way, so we got stuck behind trucks multiple times. As before we were passing mutiple different cars, even when we thought it would be impossible to pass. At one point, driving home, he made three lanes out of a two lane road, (going 100km/hr), at least the other cars moved part way onto the shoulders. I wish I had had my camera ready! Again we saw cows, goats, chickens, dogs, and cats on the side of the road. We even saw just the head of a cow!
We went to Odessa to go to a second notary because we are adopting from two different orphanages. It truely amazes us how the drivers are able to find anything because no streets are marked. As with the other offices we have been to, this office was very small and drab with just a few tables. The bathroom on the other hand was all black tiles with fancy scrollwork on the tiles, a fancy sink and toilet. It seemed totally out of place.
We had three different sets of papers laid before us, all in Russian, which we had to sign. The notary who was translating the paperwork had a shirt on which said, 'Boston.' She had been there in 2005. (Greg I understand your having a great time!) This time the paperwork was about the childrens names. They are now officially:
Christina Addison Bowling
Claudia Lubov Bowling (she's called Luba)
Michael Alexander Bowling
We were in the office less than 45 minutes. Then we went down to the Black Sea and ate a restaurant. Again the food was very good. We are staying pretty much with beef and chicken dishes and some form of potato. The restaurants are big into presentation. I had three
Thanks again for your prayers, we can really feel them!
John and Cindy
Friday, June 22, 2007
Day 7 Moving right along
Afterward, we went to the orphanage to see Lubov. This visit was not as good as the first one. We brought a Magna Doodle for her to draw on, but she didn't seem very interested. She did draw the sun when the caretaker asked her to. We kept asking her what she liked to do. She said she didn't like to play with balls and she didn't like to draw. Strike one!? She does like to play with dolls. Later we walked around the building with her while she held Cindy's hand, which was very good. Second major problem, Cindy gave her M&M's, and she DID NOT LIKE THEM!!! How is this possible? When we left she did wave good-bye to us, we told her we would be back later.
After lunch we went shopping a bought a Barbie type doll, which came with a brush, and also shoes which Lubov could wear. This time she was a totally different child. She seemed very happy to see us. She was inside playing with her friends, she stopped, put her shoes on grabbed a hat and her cat we had given her yesterday and led us outside. She was told she was getting a gift from Mama and Papa, which she seemed happy about. She really liked the doll and the shoes. She became very popular with the new items. We watched her run around on the playground with the other children. She loves to climb and slide down the slide, a regular monkey. We were also told by a different caretaker that she is the best drawer in the class. At the end of our visit, she hugged us both good-bye. This was a very good visit!
Tomorrow we drive to Odessa which is about 200km away, to see another notary. If everything goes well, we are hoping for a court date on July 3rd. We should be able to come home about 14 days after court.
At dinner we made two new friends, a cat and a dog which hang around the street near our hotel. We gave them both food, but John says we can't adopt anymore. Oh, well.
Next Tuesday and Wednesday we hope to be able to see Christina and Michael.
Keep praying things continue to run smoothly,
John and Cindy
To the Lambert's, Natasha says Hello.
Alli, I read your comments.
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Day 6 Going to the 2nd orphanage
Then we set out on the drive to see the other two children. They are at a 'resort' which is 60 km away. This area is much different than Kyiv, cooler, high 70's, and not as humid. We had to drive through some very desolate areas. We saw cows, goats, chickens, and dogs wandering around on the side of the road. It took about 75 min to get the the 'resort', and I use the term loosely as in loose gravel on the roads, ( if there is something more than dirt). The resort is more like a summer camp, they are there because there isn't enough room at the orphanage for the children. When we arrived, we talked first with the doctor about the children, then we were brought into a big room to see the children.
Christina turned 9 in April, she is healthy and smart and speaks a few English words. She has brown hair and big brown eyes, she looks a lot like her sister. She is a very beautiful girl, but she has what appears to be a hemiangioma on her left cheek. The doctor said laser surgery to remove it would be $2,000-5,000, which the gov't won't pay, but it is correctable. So we will be consulting with CHKD plastics when we return. She liked the pictures of the house we brought and when she first saw the outside of the house, she looked at it and said, 'Home', it brought tears to my eyes. We gave her a cat beanie baby which made her eyes light up. She said she dreams of having a family. We showed her the picture of her sister and she couldn't believe how big she had gotten.
Mikola, (Michael), turned 4 in April. We were told he is healthy, very clever, and a little hyperactive, but what 4 yr old boy isn't? He is blonde with dark eyes. When he saw us, he asked Natasha if he could sit on John's lap. You can tell by the look in his eyes that he will be the mischievous one. We gave him a lizard beanie baby which he liked. He was making the tongue attack his sister. He didn't remember his other sister from the picture, he was only 2 the last time he saw her.
We were only with them for about 30 minutes then they had to go to lunch. We gave them some cookies and told them we would be back.
We then had the long drive back to the hotel. We ate lunch once we got to the hotel and then had to leave to go see the gov't inspector for Lubov's ophanage. This inspector was very nice and spoke a little bit of English. She has a daughter living in Pittsburgh. She liked all the pictures of our home. We were only there for a short period of time while Natasha made multiple copies of all of our paperwork. Unfortunately, since it was getting late we weren't able to go back to see Lubov today because the director of the orphanage wasn't going to be there.
If you haven't figured out by now, we have decided these will become our children! We feel the Lord has brought us all together. The children really want to be part of our family. We are not sure if we will change their names or not, we will have to talk with them. This is all so exciting. We just pray all the meetings and paperwork will come together in a timely manner.
Now we are back at the hotel for the evening, we may watch a DVD and yes, Cindy brought a cross-stitch she is working on. Some other Ukrainian observations. Yesterday Cindy ordered hot chocolate. They make it when you order it and it is very much like hot fudge sauce in a small mug. Also they do not have frozen food at the restaurants, food is all cooked fresh, so it tastes better and takes a little bit longer to get. We also have a few cats living out front of our hotel, one looks like a roughed up Jasper.
This is our current hotel room. It is actually quite nice.
Again thanks for your prayers,
John and Cindy
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Day five going to one orphanage
Day four Some observations
Sorry our posts have been so short recently, but we were feeling sort of down. We are doing much better now. We are excited to be going to see the children. I will comment more on them later.
Just wanted to give everyone a feel of how life is in Ukraine. People drive all over the road, it's a real free-for-all. If there are no lines on the road they may drive on the opposite side until another vehicle comes along. There are many different types of vehicles which range from very small cars up to Acura SUV's. Desp
The market was an experience. You have to leave your backpacks in lockers in the front of the store. The frozen vegetables are in bins with scoops. Snack foods and sweets are very rare, although they do have Bounty candy bars, (my favorite), which I haven't seen in years.
One can't drink to water, so everyone cares around bottled water, gased (carbonated) water in very big here. It took a while for us to realize the waiter was asking which type of water we wanted until he made a sound like a soft drink fizzing. Restaurants are few. We have eaten
We feel very safe here, walking up and down the streets even at dusk or later is no problem. The people seem friendly, although we can't understand what they are saying. The police don't seem to carry guns and we were told if they do, they have rubber bullets. At the Elton John concert, with mobs of people pushing all around, we weren't worried.
We have done some shopping in the stores and we managed to have the sales people understand what we were trying to say. Greg the dictionary has come in very handy. Nesting dolls are very popular, (wooden dolls which are opened and there is a smaller one inside), sometimes the smallest one is a few millimeters. Greg we found and bought the President nesting dolls, both USA and Russian. There was even a Clinton doll. The inner dolls were Hillary, Monica(stain on dress), Paula Jones, and the smallest one was a cigar, we did not buy this one. The nesting dolls which are families have a mother, father, many children, a cat, and a chicken, it was quite funny. All the people selling along the streets really want American's to buy from them.
The cats here don't really even look at you when you call. They are not used to being fed, much less getting treats. Yesterday before we left the apt. I fed three cats the rest of our cheese and milk, they seemed very grateful.
Thanks for your prayers,
Cindy
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Day 4, second day at the SDA
We will be on a train at 9:30 tonight to travel through the night to Kherson. They are in two separate orphanages, which are close together.
Until we leave tonight we will walk around Kyiv and enjoy the sights, maybe do some shopping.
John and Cindy
Monday, June 18, 2007
Day 3 at the SDA
We hope all is well back home!
John
"Cindy speaking"
Sunday, June 17, 2007
Second day
Saturday, June 16, 2007
We're Here!!!!!!!!!!
Driving down the roads at about 60 mph with the windows open and going from lane to lane was a different experience. Kyiv has 3 million people and lots of traffic. It's hot here, in the 80's. We are staying in a small apt thru Tuesday, living room, bedroom, kitchen and bathroom. Just a place to hang your hat. We have an appt at the SDA at 2PM on Mon. Tues we will then head out to the orpanange.
Now we are off to the market to buy food.
John and Cindy
Friday, June 15, 2007
The Last few hours
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Five days till we leave!!!
We have started making long lists (which seem never ending) of all the items we will want or need to take. Everything is being collected in the back bedroom to be arranged for packing, (including M&M's), but are they for the children or for Cindy? Unfortunate
We continue to pray daily for the children God has waiting for us. This will be a huge change for us and for them. He will prepare their hearts and take away their fears.
John and Cindy
